When God wrestled with Jacob (Genesis 32), God won Jacob to Himself by making Himself weak. In His love for Jacob, He withheld His power as even a slight touch to Jacob’s hip dislocated it. God has won us to Himself through weakness too. He emptied Himself, took on human flesh, and submitted Himself to the cross to make us His. Jacob won by losing too. He walked away from wrestling with God with a limp and a new name. He would no longer be the deceiver and the striver (the double meaning of the name Jacob) but the name of the entire nation of God’s people. His weakness, his losing to God, became his victory. We are His because of His weakness and we grow to be like Him in our weakness.
Years ago, I wrote a book called Transformational Discipleship with Michael Kelley (a great friend and man with two first names) and Philip Nation (who I affectionally refer to as Nation of Discipleship) on a massive research project on how people grow spiritually. The research reveals that seasons of spiritual growth are often closely connected to seasons of weakness and vulnerability.
I have thought about that research project often. Obviously, I don’t want pain for the people I serve. I don’t want pain either! And yet I believe what C.S. Lewis wrote: “God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains.”
I have seen in others and in my own life how He uses seasons of weakness to show Himself strong, how He uses seasons of weakness to pry our hands off things that are not Him. Here are five ways God will grow you and the people in your church through weakness:
Those who exercise with weights know that the path to growing muscles is to overwhelm them, to lift heavier weights so that you feel weak. As you experience weakness, you are actually getting stronger. Whether it is a stressful season at work, new and overwhelming responsibilities, or challenges with relationship, God will use those moments of being overwhelmed to put us in a posture to depend on Him.
Ministry leaders know that people are often open to conversations about faith during seasons of change. Whether a new job, new city, or new child, those changes alert us to our longing for a strong and stable foundation. When things seem to be shifting, we want something to stand on.
Both the apostle Peter and the apostle James encourage us to rejoice in trials (which is so counter-intuitive) because the trials in our lives can develop our endurance and maturity.
When we fail we are often humbled. The humbling can be beautiful if we look to the One who gives grace to the humble. Sometimes the failures are professionally. Sometimes the failures are spiritual. And in those moments we find that God’s grace is bigger.
Disciplines that make us weak
Spiritual disciplines can help us embrace our weakness. When we fast, we make ourselves weak as we depend on Him as our food. When we rest, we make ourselves weak as we give up moments of accomplishing. When we spend time with Him in His Word, we make ourselves weak as we rely on His wisdom and not our own.
While we tend to be repelled by the idea of our own weakness, God grows us in our weakness.
This article originally appeared here.
Eric Geigerhttp://www.ericgeiger.com/Eric Geiger serves as the Vice President of the Church Resource Division at LifeWay Christian Resources. Prior to LifeWay, Eric served local churches, most recently investing eight years as the executive pastor of Christ Fellowship Miami. Eric received his doctorate in leadership and church ministry from Southern Seminary. He is also a teaching pastor and a frequent speaker and consultant on church mission and strategy. Eric authored or co-authored several books including the best selling church leadership book, Simple Church. Eric is married to Kaye, and they have two daughters: Eden and Evie. During his free time, Eric enjoys dating his wife, playing with his daughters, and shooting basketball.